are you hiding in plain sight?
Published: Sat, 02/07/15
Here it is, already into the second month of the
new year, have you moved forward in your business?
That question is either going to elicit an
"absolutely, Melissa, I am on path with passion
and making more money with a bigger impact."
(And, I'm thrilled to hear that!)
Or, you might tell me "well, nothing has really
changed, I feel trapped in a loop of same old,
same old and ready to break free of it."
I'd say you are ready to GO BEYOND!
I get it, because imagine the shock I felt when
I was caught in that loop a few years ago and had
my coach say to me "you're hiding." WHAAAAAAT?
I was not only taken aback but didn't understand
what she was talking about, until I started to see
into my business instead of just look at it. And
realized that I wasn't really showing up. (Huh?)
I was wrestling with immense resistance to being
real. Real felt scary to me, it meant that I had
to let go of my perfectionism security blanket
(that was actually strangling me) and accept that
I am human and it's okay to screw something up
or make a fool of myself occasionally.
(Are you kidding?)
Since that time, I've read a lot of Brene Brown
and watched her TEDx and TED Talk on vulnerability.
I was the poster child for not being vulnerable.
(It also manifests as not being willing to ask
anyone for help or support. Most of my clients
have struggled with this one.)
, does this sound like what
might be holding you back?
I made a series of super short, cool videos this
week to help with this and they are waiting for
you here, free:
http://www.turnonsuccess.com/
With the videos, you'll get access to the
MASTER CLASS I'm doing next week that is going
to show you how to GO BEYOND your resistance,
your perfectionism, and your people pleaser
and claim the real you.
Since I've been letting my guard down, getting
more transparent, it is incredibly freeing.
Oh and on that people pleasing side, that's today's
video. I'm diving into how to qualify your ideal client.
You are much too valuable to be wasting time with
poor fits and energy vampires and I've got some
simple, yet powerful tools to make qualifying
a virtual snap.
Imagine having a practice filled only with your best
fits (no more complainers, just those committed.)
And working with your best fits means you are
going to want the right revenue model to fit your
talent, your time, and your income goals. I'll be
diving into that in the third video,
and in depth in class.
Come join us for the MASTER CLASS and get the free
Fast Action VIDEOS Immediately!
http://www.turnonsuccess.com/
During the last decade, I've always worked with
a coach (sometimes more than one at a time),
and what I've learned is that change may feel
incredibly slow, and then you experience
a massive shift in a nanosecond and everything
changes. (It's kind of like magic for me.)
I've had a week like that, this week. It's been
a bit of a wild ride. The week began in resistance,
it felt like my coach was pulling teeth. Then
I felt a shift, I let go, and stepped into flow.
, would you like to feel that shift?
It might sound scary, and perhaps I should be
scared, but I just feel relief and I didn't even
know what I was resisting. (Well my coach did
mention that I had a burning need to be right and
that often precludes progress both major and minor.
So many lessons to learn and to share.)
Can you let go and imagine going beyond
where you are now?
I've already imagined it for you, and can tell
you your best is waiting on the other side of what
you're resisting. (Remember that old cliché,
"what you resist, persists?" It's true, I've lived it.)
Get your spot for the MASTER CLASS and watch
the BONUS Fast Action Videos, NOW!
http://www.turnonsuccess.com/
My greatest wish is that you and I could sit down
in a small group and really pull back the curtain
on your business. We could roll up our sleeves
and see into your business what you most want to
have and do. We'd create that right revenue model,
put your custom ideal client qualifier together,
and go beyond your current level of visibility,
credibility, and profitability to a place of truth
and authenticity that puts you in flow and not fight,
with more income and better clients.
Okay, I'm daydreaming a little, but that's
how all possibility begins!
Have a glorious weekend, take time out
to care for yourself.
Hugs,
Melissa
PS. Seriously, the first video is just 6 minutes,
and your visibility breakthrough will be priceless.
I can't wait to "see" you.
http://www.turnonsuccess.com/
PS.PS. Share this email with friends, family,
colleagues and fellow business owners that you
think want to GO BEYOND! Imagine a world without
resistance with everyone in flow, how totally
freakin' awesome that would be! We can get there
one shift at a time.
___
new year, have you moved forward in your business?
That question is either going to elicit an
"absolutely, Melissa, I am on path with passion
and making more money with a bigger impact."
(And, I'm thrilled to hear that!)
Or, you might tell me "well, nothing has really
changed, I feel trapped in a loop of same old,
same old and ready to break free of it."
I'd say you are ready to GO BEYOND!
I get it, because imagine the shock I felt when
I was caught in that loop a few years ago and had
my coach say to me "you're hiding." WHAAAAAAT?
I was not only taken aback but didn't understand
what she was talking about, until I started to see
into my business instead of just look at it. And
realized that I wasn't really showing up. (Huh?)
I was wrestling with immense resistance to being
real. Real felt scary to me, it meant that I had
to let go of my perfectionism security blanket
(that was actually strangling me) and accept that
I am human and it's okay to screw something up
or make a fool of myself occasionally.
(Are you kidding?)
Since that time, I've read a lot of Brene Brown
and watched her TEDx and TED Talk on vulnerability.
I was the poster child for not being vulnerable.
(It also manifests as not being willing to ask
anyone for help or support. Most of my clients
have struggled with this one.)
, does this sound like what
might be holding you back?
I made a series of super short, cool videos this
week to help with this and they are waiting for
you here, free:
http://www.turnonsuccess.com/
With the videos, you'll get access to the
MASTER CLASS I'm doing next week that is going
to show you how to GO BEYOND your resistance,
your perfectionism, and your people pleaser
and claim the real you.
Since I've been letting my guard down, getting
more transparent, it is incredibly freeing.
Oh and on that people pleasing side, that's today's
video. I'm diving into how to qualify your ideal client.
You are much too valuable to be wasting time with
poor fits and energy vampires and I've got some
simple, yet powerful tools to make qualifying
a virtual snap.
Imagine having a practice filled only with your best
fits (no more complainers, just those committed.)
And working with your best fits means you are
going to want the right revenue model to fit your
talent, your time, and your income goals. I'll be
diving into that in the third video,
and in depth in class.
Come join us for the MASTER CLASS and get the free
Fast Action VIDEOS Immediately!
http://www.turnonsuccess.com/
During the last decade, I've always worked with
a coach (sometimes more than one at a time),
and what I've learned is that change may feel
incredibly slow, and then you experience
a massive shift in a nanosecond and everything
changes. (It's kind of like magic for me.)
I've had a week like that, this week. It's been
a bit of a wild ride. The week began in resistance,
it felt like my coach was pulling teeth. Then
I felt a shift, I let go, and stepped into flow.
, would you like to feel that shift?
It might sound scary, and perhaps I should be
scared, but I just feel relief and I didn't even
know what I was resisting. (Well my coach did
mention that I had a burning need to be right and
that often precludes progress both major and minor.
So many lessons to learn and to share.)
Can you let go and imagine going beyond
where you are now?
I've already imagined it for you, and can tell
you your best is waiting on the other side of what
you're resisting. (Remember that old cliché,
"what you resist, persists?" It's true, I've lived it.)
Get your spot for the MASTER CLASS and watch
the BONUS Fast Action Videos, NOW!
http://www.turnonsuccess.com/
My greatest wish is that you and I could sit down
in a small group and really pull back the curtain
on your business. We could roll up our sleeves
and see into your business what you most want to
have and do. We'd create that right revenue model,
put your custom ideal client qualifier together,
and go beyond your current level of visibility,
credibility, and profitability to a place of truth
and authenticity that puts you in flow and not fight,
with more income and better clients.
Okay, I'm daydreaming a little, but that's
how all possibility begins!
Have a glorious weekend, take time out
to care for yourself.
Hugs,
Melissa
PS. Seriously, the first video is just 6 minutes,
and your visibility breakthrough will be priceless.
I can't wait to "see" you.
http://www.turnonsuccess.com/
PS.PS. Share this email with friends, family,
colleagues and fellow business owners that you
think want to GO BEYOND! Imagine a world without
resistance with everyone in flow, how totally
freakin' awesome that would be! We can get there
one shift at a time.
___