Life is not a test to be taken, nor are you being judged by anyone other than yourself. Allow yourself the freedom to be without judging yourself. Accept yourself for being human with all the imperfectness that includes. What feels like a test is simply more lessons to learn to advance your life.
Without the lessons you would stagnate, stall out, and stop growing. When you stop growing, you start dying. It is a lot like a beautiful plant that remains in bloom until you stop watering and feeding it, then it starts to wither. The plant will weather storms, abuse from pests and animals, and fight off weeds, all so it can continue to bloom and grow.
What you perceive as tests are simply milestones on this journey of your life and each one enables you to go a little further and will even give you a choice of a new direction based on an experience you have had.
Life is not a linear experience, the journey is not a straight line but offers challenging turns in the road, detours to be indulged, and mountains to climb. The rewards are in the experience and how you feel it.
